What's the Rush?

 We are seeing a lot of changes around us, be it technology, environment and many more. However, there has been a change in the human’s behaviour also. As days are passing, we are becoming more restless and impatient. We are slowly losing the power of waiting, listening and enjoying little things. It can be due to many factors. We rush in the last moment to get out and get stuck in traffic. We get so restless in few seconds and start honking all the way just to move an “inch” forward. Sometimes we create a big scene if the WI-FI slows down or the network doesn’t work properly. The technology has made everything easy and flexible. It gives us results in few seconds, makes transactions faster and speeds up our work. Today, If we had to stand in line to get some work done which takes a bit more longer, we get impatient and start contending against the system. Despite the age, no one is willing to wait for extra few minutes to get their work done. 

                                                 We are building expectations as we want everything on time, quick and crisp. We are missing out on the small details. Being impatient sometimes doesn’t even let us have a good conversation with others because we don’t tend to listen more than 5mins what others are trying to say. We might have attended many events where the special guests give some speeches, after few minutes we are like “When is this gonna end? Everyone gives the same old boring speeches.” We don’t even give time to ourselves to listen completely and think if we are gonna like it or not. We never know if we might get inspired unless we listen to it. Have you ever experienced, where you were in a rush to leave and you haven’t found the thing that you need yet? We become so restless while searching and we don’t find it on time. It just delays the process and our brain doesn’t concentrate while searching as it becomes messy and confused. You will only find it when you are calm and settled. 

                        We make great plans and sometimes it doesn’t turn out the way we planned it to be. Being impatient can turn the best plans into a disaster or being patient takes you to a new adventure that you haven’t experienced yet. What’s meant to be will always find it’s way. So, don’t rush just enjoy the moment.

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