The Broken heart 💔



              Why does it hurt so much? Is it that, he was a good actor? Is it because of suicide that shakes us today? Was it a suicide or something else? We don't know but one thing we know is he is no more. First things first, he was a normal human being like us. A guy with emotions and feelings. Stardom, fame, status, money, education doesn't define you. Your feelings towards things define you and they are valid.


      We are humans, we are not always positive. Trying to be positive in chaos is what we battle with. Yes, we are selfish . Yes, we feel jealous. The bigger you grow, the smaller your circles gets. Very few people truly feel happy for you. Don't lose them. A point we all miss is, not everyone pats your back always. Sometime they do and sometimes they don't. You should pat on your back. You should feel happy and proud for yourselves. One should develop self love and self care. Develop hobbies. Your hobbies are your self growth and stress busters. Focus on what makes you happy rather than who makes you happy. You don't always need someone's compliments to validate your work.


       Depression, anxiety, insomnia, PTSD and so on... Yes, each and everyone comes across it in some point of time. Some heal and some don't. It's okay but just know you are worth lot more than you think. Some say it's a phase, some just trash talk saying it was a wrong step. Who are we to decide what's right and wrong in the gods foreplay. If it was meant to be this way, then it is.


 To everyone who is battling in daily lives, we need to find balance, you need someone in your life and also you need self love. Depending only on others leads to disappointment and complete isolation leads to darkness. Extremes leads to imbalance. Fight with life but closer to your loved ones. A simple message or a call even for a minute in your day with your loved ones is what you need. Bother them as much as you can, because it's easy to lose than to hold. So,dont lose. You need to love and to be loved.


A Sunday afternoon, having lunch and watching a movie trying to fall asleep, you hear a news that you can't digest. A news which is unable to hold back our tears. Only one question, Why? Well, we can't find the real answer. The one who knows had left. Yes, we miss you. The message you should have heard before you took the decision. Even you didn't know that fact you would take this decision which you never expected in your life. Thanks for giving beautiful movies and impacting our lives with your action. Thanks for inspiring us to follow dreams and our passion. This is an  unforgettable and irreplaceable loss. All I can say is, hope you find peace where you are.


With love,
Sushmitha



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